Why is it that some husbands have a 'PhD' in criticizing their wives?! And not just criticizing O!...negatively criticizing! They are fast to see your wrongs and weaknesses but won't give you solutions or alternatives!
They almost always end their speech with "Anyway, let me not just talk". Okay, now you have opened your mouth and talked, give us an alternative, they suddenly go deaf and dumb!
If you know you don't have anything to say, please 'hang it' nooowww! It is not by force that your voice must be heard. #MrITooKnowAndTooDo
Some of you derive joy in public bashing and making snide remarks about what your wife did or did not do. When will you learn that negative criticism can be a wedge that you can drive into your marriage. And I believe you know the function of a 'wedge'.
So on a final note, anytime you notice something wrong in what your wife does or says, as soon as you are criticizing, you are giving an alternative solution.
Tell dem
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