Not just criticism but Negative Criticism!
Some couples may not know this. It is one thing to point out the faults of the other person and it is another to profer solutions to the problem.
I am sure a lot of people can handle criticisms but not after, as far as I am concerned, judging someone negatively, you will refuse to provide solution. The annoying thing about this criticizing matter, the spouse criticizing you cannot do a better job O!
I know some people who derive joy in putting their spouses down in public when they could have spoken privately about it...whatever that 'it' is.
On a final note, whoever you are, be you wife or husband, who is fond of negatively and non-constructively criticizing, here are some tips on breaking this bad habit:
1. Give many options for solving flaw(s)
2. If your spouse can't seem to arrive at a definite solution, offer your assistance.
3. When and if the solution or decision has been taken, end the matter!
Thank you.
You must be really absent minded to queue behind mannequins... one full minute, no movement. no eye contact, you don't say Hi... not me
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