Remember I told you guys that I won't be saying much on the issue of Domestic Violence. I have seen that some women are highly cursed!
What I need to know from you wives who get daily dose of beating...what does it do to you? Does it turn you guys on? Is it like a prelude to hot great sex? So why the hell do you freaking remain in an abusive relationship??!!
I stumbled on this story...as usual. And the annoying thing about the whole event, is that the woman cries at the outcome of the beating! Abegi!! Save your crocodile tears. What do you expect from a mad husband?!
Look, if you are going to remain in an abusive relationship, then start learning how to fight for survival! If he beats you, don't let him go Scot free. Let him sleep, and then you attack! You have a lot of options:
1. Hot water (on any part of his body that you like)
2. Hot Oil (to fry his balls, if you like. But if you never collect pikin from his hand, don't go there...yet!)
3. Hire thugs in your area, pay them to beat him well, as in well! These are his real mates! Don't forget to collect their numbers just in case.
4. Your pestle. You fire this from a distance.
The trick is not to kill him but to leave unforgettable marks on his body! Be there to nurse him back to health for 'Round 2'!
Please read on before I get carried way *too vexed*...
A naval officer’s two children die in a fire he started accidentally while allegedly beating his wife in Lagos on Friday.
The incident involving the naval officer identified by officials of the Gbagada General Hospital simply as Udofia, took place at the Nigerian Navy Town, Ojo, Saturday PUNCH learnt.
According to a hospital official, who pleaded anonymity because she was not authorised to speak on the issue, the deceased children, Emmanuela and Michael, were aged 18 months old and five years old.
When the children were brought in here, their father, who also sustained some burn injuries, said they were electrocuted but that turned out to be a lie because when the wife later came, she narrated what actually happened,” the official aid.
The distraught mother of the children, who arrived the hospital much later after their bodies were brought to the burns unit of the Gbagada General Hospital, told hospital officials in tears that Udofia was beating her when he angrily kicked a lit stove.
“The woman narrated that as he kicked the stove, it landed on their refrigerator, which immediately exploded. We were told the children were nearby when the refrigerator exploded,” the hospital official said.
The children were reportedly engulfed in flames but all efforts to save them proved abortive. Gbagada General Hospital officials said they were brought in dead.
When our correspondents visited the hospital, naval personnel and an ambulance of the Nigerian Navy Reference Hospital, Ojo were seen in the front of the hospital.
Udofia was said to be receiving treatment in a ward in the hospital as well but he was kept away from inquisitive eyes.
The bodies of the children had also been taken to the hospital’s mortuary by the time, our correspondent got there.
Hospital officials feared for the sanity of the children’s mother, who was said to have been taken away by her church officials.
“The woman was not acting normal anymore. That may be to the psychological trauma of the event,” a hospital official said.
Saturday PUNCH contacted the spokesperson of the Western Naval Command, Lagos, Lt. Way Olabisi, for comment, but he said he was in a meeting at the time.
*I feel like shouting "Woe and more woe unto any woman who remains in an abusive marriage", but I won't say it because of God*
Hmmmm!!! You know iv tried to reason it out and wrap my head around how any woman in her right senses can remain with a man who pummels her even once not to mention repeatedly... Can't figure it out..... I have had close contact with a few and honestly am thinking mayb it really does give dem a rush or makes d man seem more attractive in a crazy way, watever spell it casts one thing remains infallible ..... Ladies!!!! Any man dat enjoys hitting u and causing u pain whether verbally, emotionally or physically does not love you or even like u and d minute he knows ur willing to let him get away with it even once, trust me any respect or regard he had for you or ur feelings diminishes evri time he gets away with it which is y abuse only escalates evri time and eventually ur only an outlet for his insecurities and a catalyst for his ego and a man's ego never stops feeding. Even an abused animal flees frm its owner once given d chance and ur a woman fearfully and wonderfully made to be loved,taken care of and respected pls don't be conned into giving up dat right. Get out now!!!!!!!!!!!!!
ReplyDeleteIt's a shame that women are still under the spell of culture or "what will people think?"Or "I'm staying bcos of my children until they die and d children will survive
ReplyDeleteIt's a shame that women are still under the spell of culture or "what will people think?"Or "I'm staying bcos of my children until they die and d children will survive
ReplyDeleteBeautifully said you guys. I am so enraged about this whole domestic violence situation. The statistics may not be so alarming or shocking but seriously disappointing. Trust me when I say that in every 10 women, 7 are surely being beaten in their homes.
ReplyDeleteMy dear you have asked the right questions
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