Friday, October 11, 2013

THE VAGINA AFTER CHILD BIRTH - A Husband's Point of View


A lot of husbands are complaining that their wives' vaginas are too lax after a normal vaginal delivery!  They say they do not 'feel' their wives anymore. 

I met a husband who broke down in tears because of this issue! You may think it's funny, but it's not! For some men, they manage. Others find a solution through surgery called vaginoplasty while, others simply get another woman who would replace their wives literally.

The truth of the matter, is that, it's not all vaginas that become lax after childbirth. Some vaginas return to their normal state after delivery.

Some of the major causes of lax vagina are prolonged traumatic delivery, big baby wahala and multiple tears during delivery.

Four weeks after vaginal birth, the vagina should start moving back into shape.

However, in cases where the vagina does not contract significantly, Kegel exercise is strongly recommended which is very effective. This consists of contracting and relaxing the muscles that form part of the pelvic floor in a similar manner to that of holding up the urine. It is suggested that women do this as often as they remember, wherever they are.

If you are interested in doing this Kegel thingy, then visit a proper gym next you. However, if there is a significant damage or lax, a surgical procedure is then recommended to tighten the vagina.

That's why me I love caesarean section (C/S) anytime any day.

If you have a lax vagina or your husband is one of those that complains please share your experience O!

5 comments:

  1. How can u say u like CS just because u want your vagina to please a man? What type of message is that sending?.....Nature made the vagina the passage ....deal with it!...Life is about give take, up down and lots of patience....it's not ALL about pleasure...what are they 5yrs old?...please grow up dudes!

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  2. Waoh! CS all the way!

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  3. Mrs blogger I dislike Ʊя̲̅ site now , how can u say u chose CS all d way? Its probably bcause u can't have a normal vaginal delivery cos of Ʊя̲̅ tiny birth passage or something. I had M̶̲̥̅γ̲̣̣̥ foru kids through normal vaginal delivery n ma vg Ȋ̝̊̅§ still very tight. U jst have to excerice more especially d pelvic floor excericise. That Ȋ̝̊̅§ wot I expect u to say n ₪☺τ̅ saying u choose CS over normal delivery. Long hisssssssssssss

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  4. yes u sending the wrong message telling pple or shuld i say advicing pple to go do cs......its becos u av probably neva felt wat it means to av a normal delivery...if after it al,d vg is a bit loose,the husband shuld learn to manage..nd besides if he is truely a real nd responsible man he wont go out lookin for rubbish...

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