WICKED STEPMOTHER KILLS STEPDAUGHTER AND BURIES HER IN SOAKAWAY

A woman by the name, Aminat Akanni has been arrested by the Lagos police, for allegedly abducting 2 of her stepchildren and then murdering one of them. She claimed she did it because her husband refused to take care of her and her son. She killed the younger of the 2 children, 4 year old Nofisat, by pushing her into the soakaway.

Read here.

Meanwhile, this Aminat of a woman is the 2nd wife of Mr Moshood Mubo, the father of the missing children, who doesn't even live in the same area as the man and his first wife.

This what one sees when a man decides to stray from his home to bring in another woman. As if marrying one is not enough, these men just have to marry a second, that may bring doom to the family. Some women are just too wicked. 

Some of these kind of women, even if you put them in another continent, they will still be doing 'jazz' wherever they are. 

Na wah o! May God help us all. 

AGONY MAIL: MY HUSBAND'S MISTRESS'S SQUATTER IS PREGNANT FOR HIM!

Good morning peeps. I really do not know what to make of this mail I recently got...

Dear NHW,

I am great fan of your blog, even though I hardly comment, I have learnt a lot from it. I am presently having the last laugh. In the past 9 months, my home and my marriage have been very chaotic.

I have been faithfully married to my husband for 6 years, from the time he had nothing, and we are blessed with 2 children (a boy and a girl). At first, my husband was a very caring and awesome some man who focused on ensuring that the family was well catered for. During the times our marriage was rosy, he was a able to build our house ( a big duplex and a mini-flat at the back of the house). He was also self-employed, coming home everyday between 6pm and 7 pm. I trusted him completely. 

After some years, he started coming back home much later, even sometimes, he would travel for days claiming that it was work-related. Then my younger sister, who was living with me had been warning me about my husband's change in behaviour and that I should do something about it. I dismissed her thoughts immediately, defending my husband.

Onetime I got pregnant for our 3rd child and he insisted I aborted it, not knowing that he had a mistress who was pregnant at the same time with me. To cut the long story short, his mistress forcefully took over the mini-flat at the back of our house, even threatening to move into the main building when she puts to bed. This mistress then brought her friend into the house to squat with her. 

Unknowingly to the mistress, my husband has been sleeping with her squatter friend. For the past few days there has been no peace in my house because we just found out that my husband impregnated his mistress's friend! So me, I jejely sat back to see how he is going to get himself out of this situation. 

As much as I am having the last laugh, I can't take it anymore. How did I get to this point? My younger sister says I should not leave my home. Pls I need advise, what do you think?

*your younger sister is right. If you leave, the devil will take your place. This is the time you need to be steadfast in your prayer and get those intruders out of your home*

BRUCE JENNER IS DATING KRIS'S BEST FRIEND!

Talk about ultimate betrayal!

Bruce (64) and Kris (58) Jenner have only been separated for about a year and soon to be ending their 22 year old marriage, only for Kris's best friend and former assistant of 20 years, Rhonda Kamihra to move in!Read here

How does she expect Kris to feel about it? Of course, the 'poor' woman is devastated. It makes one wonder if Bruce had even been faithful right from the onset. Maybe this Ronda chic has been praying for this breakup...just maybe.

I even heard Kris had shared some secrets on "how to seduce Bruce" with Ronda. Read here  *But Kris, how could you?*

MAJOR RULE: NEVER SHARE BEDROOM SECRETS WITH YOUR BEST FRIEND EVEN YOUR SHADOW!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO MY 2 FAVOURITE GIRLS EVER!

Today is an awesome day.

Two special people in my life are a year older today, (Mrs)Chinwe Kamma-Enyinna and (Mrs)Larah Ajayi-Fatigun. They were both born on the 19th of October.

Chinwe is the baby of the house (6th of 6 children) and she's a product of an 'accidental discharge'! Lol! But now she's all grown, married with 2 kids. Anyway, you will always remain my 'baby' especially when mummy denied me a lot of play times with other kids, just so that I could take care of you! There's a 10 year difference in our ages but you can never tell because we love each other too much. I'm scared when she comes over to my place, because clothes, shoes, jewelries start to miss! What most older sisters dread!

#Throwback pics #LawSchoolDays

Isn't that my 2nd favourite niece?!

 

Larah, on the other hand, is my number one sister in-law. She is my acquired older sis who dots over her brothers especially mine (but the guy sef has opened eye!). She is the only girl of her family, so you can imagine what I went through to get her approval in dating her brother! Early in my relationship with her brother, Lol! she would watch me like a hawk, my every move, just to make sure I truly loved her brother and that I wasn't fooling around with his heart! But I'm sure I proved that I was worthy of her brother's love. *Tongue sticking out*. Presently, she's not in the country and I can't wait to have her back.

These women are awesome people, Super women in fact. They both have some things in common which till date, as much as I hate to say this...annoys me! They are both 'Clean Freaks' as in, when you get to their houses, it's so clean, you are too scared to even touch anything or sit. They also like to cook (Yuk!)...they are forever cooking and serving you with food! They are fantastic 'Gisting' companions...no dulling moment.

I just have to say this,"This Chic loves dressing up!"

Did I forget to mention her Butt of life? (Kim should just go and seat down!)

I just want to say I love you both so much. One older sis and a baby sis...super duper awesome! *Singing in Stevie Wonder's voice* Wishing you both many more years in good health, both of mind and body. May God, in His infinite goodness, continue to bless the works of your hands IJN. Amen.

GROOM DUMPS BRIDE AT THE IKOYI REGISTRY TODAY!!

Aaagh, this world is wicked!!

Apparently, the groom, Uzor Emmanuel, a 47 year old man, dumped Victoria Adeleye, a 42 year old woman, who was desperate for marriage, at the Ikoyi Registry today!

The groom apparently is married with 3 children and was only interested in Victoria's money. So he 'courted' her for sometime and then moved into her apartment situated at Isolo area of Lagos. Just when all plans to consummate the marriage was almost threw, Emmanuel took off with Adeleye's N4million.

Wedding had to be called off.

Read here for full gist

There are many guys like this Emmanuel scouting facebook for successful single women who are desperate to answer 'Mrs'. Once these idiots profile these women, they move closer to them or chat them up via social media. And due to their desperate search for love, they fall prey to the charms or 'juju' of these men.

Stick around gurls and I'll teach you how to 'fish' these type of men out but in the meantime be steadfast in prayer!

SINGLES COURT: BACHELORS, PLEASE REDEEM YOURSELVES!

CASE: ARE MEN GENERALLY INTIMIDATED BY SUCCESSFUL SINGLE WOMEN?

MY OWN VERDICT: I need to hear from you guys because when I say my own, some of you will be throwing stones at me or grumbling in one corner! 

Meanwhile, Genevieve Nnaji, on the 'Truth with Olisa' shaow, just confirmed what I had told Linda Ikeji when she bought her Jeep, and started announcing to the world! Read here for Genevieve's Interview when she said, "Men don't want me because I'm too successful"...so I don't know again!

BOKO HARAM TO RELEASE 218 CHIBOK GIRLS ON MONDAY

I have mixed feelings about this news.

According to Punch Newspaper, the 218 school girls abducted from Chibok, Borno State, by the violent Boko Haram sect  may be released on Monday following a ceasefire agreement between the sect and Federal Government.

I'm happy because these girls, who could have been any woman's daughter, are soon going to be re-united with their loved ones. But only God knows in what state or condition they will be in...but let's still thank God.

On the other hand, I'm sad that it took so long to get to this point. Can't help but wonder what the motive behind this 'kind' gesture is?!

Read here for the full story.

PICTURES FROM BOVI'S DAUGHTER'S 'FROZEN-THEMED' BIRTHDAY BASH

Bovi, the comedian, recently celebrated his daughter's first birthday. They both share the same birthday, September 25. He also celebrated his wife's birthday and wedding anniversary all in the month of September.

Birthday Girl, Elena

Bovi's beautiful wife

Courtesy Nigeriafilms.com

AGONY MAIL: MY FATHER IS DATING MY BEST-FRIEND!

Dear NHW,
My heart is heavy, not just for me but for my mother who received my crazy friend into her home with open arms!

My father is a renowned unrepentant womaniser and for this reason, I don't usually invite my friends over. But this my friend whom I met in my Jambite years seemed different. I thought we upheld the same values. She is studious and believes in saving herself for marriage.

A month after I had introduced her to my family, I noticed that my father was always asking after her which I thought odd...It's not like they had any business together! My father who is hardly ever around on weekends, started being available because he knows I and my friend spend the weekend at home. He would even offer to drop us at school. Very weird indeed. I can't remember the last time my father offered to drop my in school. He would even give us money individually, but my friend would have the lion's share.

I observed that my father calls my friend at odd times. At first, I thought nothing of it but as the calls increased, I had to confront my friend and asked her what was really going on between them. Of course, she denied any form of relationship. But I noticed she put a password on her phone so that I don't gain access to her messages and call logs.

The funny thing about all these, is that my mother totally loves and trusts her. She is allowed to come to my house at her own free will.

One fateful day, while I was in school, I thought it odd that I hadn't seen my friend all day. So I called her phone but it was switched off. I checked all the possible places I could find her but to no avail. NHW, I just don't know why my mind went straight to my house. At that minute I thought of my house, I could hear my heart beat so loudly. The worst thoughts came to my mind, so I decided to visit home.

The cab dropped me at home and I saw my father's car and instantly I started praying against my worst fears. I felt like my legs were too heavy for me but I made it finally to the door. It wasn't locked. My friend's bag was on the couch but not her. I rushed up to my room and saw my father and friend in the most ungodly manner. I charged at her and a fight erupted.

Now the fool is sending me a text that goes thus, "Chika, in your mind you have won abi? You are vexing because I am dating your father. Then what will you say when I become your step mom?"

Please I need the advise of people. What can I do to prevent this useless girl from interfering in my parents' happiness?

* Chika, I must say this but your friend is evil! I think you should pray first and then talk to your father and then see if your mother knows what's going on*

SINGLES CLASS: LIVING WITH YOUR BOYFRIEND FOR 'DONKEY' YEARS IS NOT AN ASSURANCE OF MARRIAGE

I really don't know why girls do this! Y'all need to change your 'parole' a.k.a 'Modus operandi'.

I have in the past few years, lent my shoulders for babes to cry on, even finished packs and packs of 'Kleenex' when they cry you a river! Simply because their long term live-in boyfriend just dumped them for another chic.

Let's get this straightened out now - IT IS SOOO WRONG TO BE THAT WAY WITH YOUR BOYFRIEND! When it's time for him to be serious, he won't be motivated to do so because he has seen everything finish. You have allowed him the opportunity to see what he can and cannot live with, which he would have tolerated if he had "put a ring on it". 

Smearing your presence all over his house don't mean nothing! If you like scatter your undies all over inappropriate places, it still don't mean nothing. When you are out doing groceries or whatever, his supposedly side chic is gonna come in and think really you are that 'cousin' he is always talking about, then move your stuff to a corner and play with 'her' man! *Hehehe* Yeah! Her man because that 'side' chic will end up being the 'main' chic.

You are only entitled to spend a maximum of 3days with your beau (that is if you must). Give him a bit of what he should expect if he were to put a ring on it. Make him hunger for those qualities he thinks you have...make him beg to marry you...infact, make him cry to have you. And I am not talking about doing some 'slavery' stuff like doing laundry and all that (we will address this later!), I'm talking about showing off your cooking skills when and only when he gives you money to shop for those ingredients! *eyes rolling*

I tell you this because it makes me remember my dear friend who lived with her boyfriend for 12 years, waiting to be taken to the altar. She even had 4 kids for him (2 boys and 2 girl), believing God that her boyfriend will marry her anyways. Well, unknowing to her, while she was still living with him, the guy had started courting someone else outside the 'home'. Towards the end of their 12th year together, my friend heard from her close friends that her live-in boyfriend was tying the knots some where in Benin (she resides in Lagos). That's how my friend carried her 2 left legs to Benin and Lo and Behold, her boyfriend not only was getting married, he had another house there!

So if you are single and living with your boyfriend, quietly move your things back to your father or parents' house and be just a 'visitor' to his home. Let him do the right thing before he sees you finish!

*Ogwuchala*

PARENTING 101: ENJOY YOUR KIDS' COMPANY (I KNOW IT'S NOT EASY!)

This is actually the most important part of your 'To-Do' List.

It is not an easy task to do especially if you are an extremely busy mum or if your kids are quite a handful...tell me about it! But I found a way around this difficult task.

It's really important that one spends quality time with these kids because that way you get to know the REAL 'them'. You get to know how they view the world, you as a parent, their siblings, their school, friends, etc. But you know as a mum, half of the time, you are thinking of all the tasks ahead of you and your child is there calling out for your attention in his game or her homework. This can leave you irritable.

So the trick is this, the minute you notice that your child is seeking for your attention or needs that attention, work with your psyche, tell yourself that no other job is more important other than to truly listen to what that child is saying. The more you force yourself to really listen and act like you are interested, the more interested you are and the more you become part of their lives.

If you miss every opportunity of getting to know them, the further away you are from truly knowing them.

I used to hate school runs, because truly, it can be seriously overwhelming. Using the school bus was totally out of it for me because of the security instability of the country. But you see, after a while it became a pleasant thing for me because whether I liked it or not, my kids would forcibly tell me all that happened to them that day and how they reacted or responded to the situation. I usually seize every opportunity to instil my values, rebuke who I needed to rebuke or reprimand any ill behaviour. Now," I know my sheep and my sheep know me! "

What am I saying? I am saying that the more you don't see spending time with your children as a 'burden', the more interested you will be in getting to know them and the more you will look forward to enjoying their company.

SNOOP DOGG GUSHES ABOUT HIS WIFE OF 25 YEARS, SHANTE

According to Daily Mail, the famous rapper, whose real names are Calvin Cordoza Broadus Jr. posted pictures on his Instagram page, gushing about how strong their relationship is. His post was captioned "25 Years Strong!!!"

Snoop and Shante have been married since 1997 and have three kids together, Corde, Cordelle and Cori.

Read here







Power of a Smart black woman! Their marriage is a sure proof that Celebrity marriages can work, if necessary formulas are applied especially WISDOM.

COUPLE CANDY OF THE WEEK

This super hot couple, Okwudili Umenyiora (Dilly Motors CEO) and Fifi, are not only 5 years in marriage with 3 beautiful kids, they are continuously smitten with each other in public.

They are so beautiful together, they even wan use luxury wound themselves...they qualify!

May God bless their union.

MARRIAGE CLASS: WHY YOU SHOULD NOT CONSIDER DIVORCE

Are you seriously considering it?!

Are you sure that's your last option? Now I'm not talking about those in Domestic Violence Situations...you sure need to step out of that 'danger zone'! I'm referring to couples who have not had a complete day without coming at each other, who just can't just agree to disagree, who are having a hard time forgiving each other.

In this my 'small' years in marriage, I have realized that in one sentence, "It is completely human to err, and divine to forgive". PLEASE, LET ME JUST EMPHASIZE AGAIN THAT I AM NOT REFERRING TO THOSE IN DOMESTIC VIOLENCE SITUATION. YOUR SPOUSE, THE BEATER NEEDS TO GO AND SEEK HELP. THANK YOU.

Before you pick that pen to sign those papers, just think deeply about the following:

- The emotional, social and financial drain it will have on you. Men find it harder to adjust emotionally after a divorce.

- Child custody battle. Which parent gets to stay with the children and who gets to visit.

- Raising children as a single parent. This is not easy. God had a reason for creating that 'mummy' and 'daddy' role.

- Loneliness can kill. You will be so lonely, you might end up doing stupid things you never imagined you would ever do. 

- The psychological effect it will have on your child or children. Some children start developing academic problems, bed-wetting issues, social interaction problems, even suicidal ideation. 

- The stigma of being a 'Divorcee'. For the women it's even worse. It will be hard for men to take you seriously and if care is not taken, you will unknowingly become a serial divorcee. Our Nigerian society generally frowns at 'Divorce'.

- Your personal assets you have to split. 

- The cost of paying a lawyer. 

I don't remember anywhere it was said that Marriage was easy. If you are seriously considering it, it just shows that you are not only a 'Quitter' but that you lack the ability to solve problems.

A true test of a marriage comes when couples are able to solve those major problems in their marriages. 

DIFFERENCE BETWEEN MARRIAGE AND COURTSHIP

As funny as this may sound, but think about the following differences carefully:

- in courtship, the man chases the woman while in marriage, the woman chases the man.

- in courtship, the man will do anything to keep the woman while in marriage, it is the woman that does the fighting to keep her man...even her rivals!!

- in courtship, any aggrieved party is free to walk out of the relationship with no cost implication while in marriage, walking away will cost money!

- in courtship, the man can wait for the woman till he grows grey hair, while in marriage, man runs out of patience and the woman has to wait till she grows grey hair....especially at night! (Tell me about it *eyes rolling*)

This is my own LIST, feel free to add to the list...

EVERYDAY IS FOR THE THIEF BUT ONE DAY IS FOR THE OWNER!

Such was the case for my longtime friend. Lol!

My friend is married to her best friend and soulmate...or so she thought. She trusted her hussy 1001%.  Every time, the guy comes home really late claiming it was work that kept him. She really didn't have any reason to disbelieve him...really. After all, he catered to his family's needs. 

One day, that ONEDAY I talked about, after 9years of marriage, a woman with a 6 year old shows up at her door enquiring after her hussy. Her husband has been bed ridden for close to 2weeks now and apparently had not been able to communicate with his mistress. And so like a woman scorned, shows up at his house by fire by force. 

His wife, my friend, is dazed up, trying to take in all the information thrown at her. She looks at the woman, the 6 year old and then at the staircase that leads to where her husband is. 

Of course, what followed next should have been expected, she fainted. Thank God I was there to resuscitate her. 

Her music has suddenly changed from "My husband is a saint" to "All men are the same joor!"

Lol! Please O, Ore, all men are not the same O!  *Mine is a saint* *wink*

CLINIC MATTERS: GUESS WHO SEXUALLY ABUSED THIS KID?

(Had to remove the previous pics. People think it's the client...I'm not that callous abeg O! It was just an illustrative pics!)

To be a doctor is definitely not 'beans'. Sometimes, one needs to be 'extra-terrestrial' to make a diagnosis. And please by extra-terrestrial, I mean everything other than 'flying objects' e.g winch and co. Lol!

I am referring to a peculiar case I saw today. Thank God I took note of details...nothing passed me by.

AGE: 9 year old

GENDER: Female

STATUS: Primary 5 pupil at a public school. Lives with parents and 2 younger siblings.

COMPLAINTS: Recurrent history of pain on urinating. Foul smelling vaginal discharge (minimal though)

It was her father that brought her to the clinic (I thought that was odd, but I kept on. No need jumping to conclusions just yet). I enquired about her mother and was shocked to hear that my client's mum chose to remain outside the consulting room. Her father insisted that it was okay for the mum to remain outside. *Hmmm...*

All this while, my client hadn't said a word, she just kept staring at me and nodding at every word her father said about her ailment and how and when it started. This was getting too much for me, this guy had got to leave my office so that I investigate objectively. Yes, I politely asked him to excuse us. At first, he hesitated.

It took minutes before I could gain my client's confidence. And when she finally did, she trembled as she gave a list of the men that have been sexually abusing, including her father. This has been going on for 2 years and it started with her father. Apparently, her mother and father are really not together and so she and her siblings have been living alone with their father. Her mother would visit only once in a while or call. She never had the courage to tell her mother because the closeness wasn't there...and that explains why her mother felt she had to stay outside. *How lame*

Any way family and client have been referred to the clinical psychologist.

We need to really pay more attention to your kids. Sexual abuse is real and can come from anywhere. 

WHY CAN'T 'THEY' JUST READ BETWEEN THE LINES?!

I am sure you are wondering who the 'they' are? I'm referring to our husbands!

When a woman looks like she is spoiling for a fight, it's not the time for you husbands to enter a 'contest' with us but to calm down and critically analyze why the outburst.

The answer to her outburst is not far fetched...she is simply seeking your attention and a reassurance of your love. 

It's so funny how husbands are fast to get their claws out and take their wigs off (Oh! They do have these too!) when wives decide to go down that lane.

Alas, it's clear that men are not as smart as they think they are or want people to perceive. Women, on the other hand pick their 'teething' signs and get it fixed. 

A pity indeed...

FEMALE GENITAL MUTILATION ALERT!!

At this time and age...so people still do stuff like this really sad!

Read the story here as it is told in Sun News...

This tradition sef, can't it be modified if not changed at all and I'm not just talking about FGM.

CLINIC MATTERS: A 'SICK' BREAST NEEDS IMMEDIATE ATTENTION

Remember I told you guys that I would be sharing my daily experiences at the clinic with you. I just decided to choose this one case out of several since it involves the breast #BreastCancerAwareness

Today's case was more annoying than pathetic!

AGE: 32 years old
GENDER: Female
MARITAL STATUS: Married with 2 kids
EDUCATIONAL LEVEL: Tertiary (meaning she reached University level) I purposely put this part just to let you guys know that there are "Educated Illiterates" in our midst.

CASE: She had been diagnosed with Breast Cancer 8 months ago and was offered Mastectomy (removal of the breast). For a bilateral mastectomy would have been totally up to her but she chose to abscond. When it was first diagnosed, it was still stage 1 but with what looks like an ulcer on the affected breast, it's probably a Stage 3.

And the thing about an ulcerating breast cancer...it smells like hell! Anyone who knows someone with this type will know what I'm talking about.

So technically, this is what it looks like  (Not trying to scare you but only trying to make a point)

So this lady absconded when she heard 'Surgery' and thought she could try other non-invasive measures. Where did she go?!...a herbalist and she stayed there for 2 months as an 'in-patient' waiting for that cure. Unfortunately, the lump kept increasing in size and hardness. Then she migrated to the church (I am not saying the name of the church) hoping to get some anointing from the pastor. After 3 months, she gave up, by then the ulcer had developed and here we are...back to square one!

I simply asked her one question after she narrated her 'Isrealites' Journey', "Why?" She replies saying that she didn't want to risk losing her breasts, which she is eventually going to lose anyways! SMH!!

Anyway, I have referred her to the Surgeons...

On a final note women (and maybe men), please a 'sick' breast is a 'sick' breast, that needs medical attention. If it means cutting them off to save your life, please do. You have so much to live for, your kids especially. So why shoot yourself on the leg?!

AGONY MAIL: MY FOUR KIDS DON'T BELONG TO MY HUSBAND

OMG!! This s%@t is getting serious. When I hear stuff like this, I'm thinking "Okay, this happens like every 2 in 40 marriages!" I hope mails like this don't make our husbands start doubting us!

What am I talking about? Please read on, because this blog reader needs your advice before she dies from too much thinking!

Dear NHW,

I am so distraught right now. I don't think I can carry on with this burden in my heart.

I am married to a wonderful man and have been for 15 years now. My husband has done nothing but shower me and the kids with love and gifts. If I say we have 5 children, I will be lying because out of the 5 kids, only 1 belong to him, my daughter who just turned 2 years old.

How do I start? My husband is a Chemical Engineer who has been working for an Oil Company even before I met him. But we never really enjoyed the marriage because he was always offshore and would come back only about 3 to 4 times a year. This wasn't convenient for me because I never loved him initially. Our marriage was that of convenience. He never thought for once I had a problem with his job because I never complained. So he continued and for him, he never really had marriage as a priority. What he never knew was that I never broke up with my boyfriend, whom my parents never approved of before giving me away to him.

My husband's continued absence was my greatest joy because that gave me and my boyfriend enough time to spend together. I got pregnant for my boyfriend mistakenly but couldn't abort it because of all the stories I heard about abortion. A part of me didn't want to remove the pregnancy because of my love for my boyfriend and I really didn't care if it broke the marriage up. So I decided to take my chances. Coincidentally, my husband came back around the time I missed my period, so I naturally hooked the pregnancy on him and which he gladly accepted without doubt.

When I saw how easily the 1st pregnancy went, I and my boyfriend decided to plan the pregnancies around the time my husband would come back. I did this for the next 3 pregnancies. The surprising thing is that all my kids look like me except the 5th one who looks like my husband.

My boyfriend got married by the time I had the 3rd pregnancy but that didn't stop our affair. One day, my husband finally made to work in the Lagos office and since he was going to be more at home, I broke up with my boyfriend. It took a while before I could adjust to the change and my husband. So by the time my husband had spent a full year, I got to know the real him and that is how I got pregnant for my last daughter. I have 3 boys and 2 girls (14yrs, 12yrs, 9yrs, 6yrs and 2yrs).

After 3 full years with my husband, I have grown to love him and I think he deserves the truth. But my kids will be devastated because all 4 of them think my husband is their true dad. I am not naturally a dishonest person and that's why I want to tell him but so much will be damaged.

Please help me make a decision, please.

*My goodness, blog reader! I don't know what to say but one thing I know for sure is that something as deep as this should not be kept a secret because one day it will come out! Your husband deserves to know the truth as well as your kids...and I hope for your sake, you have a job and where to live because *Deep Cough*...who knows what he might do but it is sure not a joke...*

Blog readers over to you...

TY BELLO BIRTHS TWIN BOYS AFTER 9 YEARS OF "WAITING ON THE LORD"

 

God is indeed awesome!

TY Bello, musician/photographer who has been married for 9 years without child, has finally been blessed with twin boys, Christian and Christopher. TY who put to bed in the early hours of Saturday in America, is said to be doing well. 

For those of you waiting, your prayers have been answered. We shall soon be rejoicing before the year runs out IJN. Amen.

MARRIAGE COURT: SUSPICIONS OF INFIDELITY

COMPLAINANT: Wife

STATUS: Only wife of husband. Has 3 kids with him. Both live in a 2-bedroom apartment with a live-in maid who is 21 years old.

CASE: Wife stays in one room with husband and kids in the other, while maid sleeps in the parlour. Lately, for over a month now, wife has been waking up in the middle of the night to meet an empty bed. When she gets up to search for husband, she meets him watching TV or so it seems, funnily in the same place maid is sleeping. When she enquires why so late, he says he finds it difficult sleeping and maybe 30minutes to 40 minutes later, he comes back in. She says she thought nothing of it until 2 separate events got her thinking again.

First event happened when one day, there wasn't light and so she didn't expect her husband to be watching any TV but still the bed was empty. As usual, she went to the parlour to check on him. In the darkness, she met him sprawled on the couch while the made was on the floor not to far from him. She smelt something 'fishy' had gone on or was going on! She woke him up any way and led him back to the room.

Second event which solidified her suspicions was when she purposely sent her maid on an errand that needed urgent attention. The maid left her phone and so decided to go through her call logs and messages. She saw nothing in the call log, but she saw a message that showed where her husband had  sent recharge call credits to her maid, not once, not twice or thrice...Bingo!!

QUESTION: Should wife confront her husband or the maid or both?

VERDICT: I personally think she should have that 'Talk' with her husband. She should leave the maid out of it for now, even though I can't understand why hussy should be sending maid credit! She should hear from her husband's mouth first sha!

Abi, what do you guys think?!

MEN, PLEASE ANSWER THIS URGENT QUESTION

Why on earth do you guys come back really late at night and still ask for food?

I just don't get it! Even with all this Obesity campaign going on, no matter the time of night, you will still ask for that food. 

I really appreciate the fact that you still come back home to eat, but must it be that late?!

Apart from all other duties we struggle to handle as wives, you still 'employ' us as night watchmen and caterers! 

Diaris God O!!

2 YEAR OLD 'KIDNAPPED' BY GRANDMOTHER HAS BEEN FOUND

It is with great joy, I bring you this news, that little Liya who was recently kidnapped by her paternal grandmother and whose story was widely publicised, has been found.

If you missed the initial gist, Read Here

This what Temmy, Liya's mother posted on her Instagram page (Courtesy Bella Naija)

Na wah O! Thank God sha!