HOW TO TELL IF YOUR HUSBAND LOVES YOU

A lot of we wives are usually misguided by our husbands especially when they tell us "I love you"...and that's where it ends...just plain Words!

Now, not to worry, I think these tips might help to guide us better! *sticking tongue out*

1. Action speaks louder than words! After saying those words, he should prove it by doing some house chores with or for you, he can give you more money *wink*, take you out more often.

2. Ask him what he thought of you the first time he laid his eyes on you. His answers will tell his true feelings for you.

3. When you talk, he LISTENS not HEARS!! A lot of people hear but don't listen.

4. He takes commitment seriously by being faithful.

5. You both do a lot of stuff together.

6. When you give your husband space to nurture his individuality, you reap good results! Trust me, he gives more of himself to you!  So to you Policing-wives, quit policing!

7. Watch how your husband's father relates with his wife or how he treats his wife. It's probably a glimpse of what you will be getting from his son, your husband!

8. Men think about sex all the time...so just ensure you are the one he fantasizes about!

9. Husbands love it when their wives initiate sex...so do not dull yourself!

...you can add to the list O!

PREGNANCY OF MORE THAN TEN MONTHS!! SERIOUSLY?!

Wifeys, I don't mean to burst your bubble talkless of poking it! But now, I am beginning to get seriously disgusted.

I just met a lady who appeared to be heavy with child and she was even moving like one. I even said, "Eeyah, pele O!" and then asked her when she was due. She said it all depends on the Lord, that she was ready for labour any time! I thought she was joking and offered to laugh! So I said, "Seriously, how old is your pregnancy?" She replied by saying "1yr 3mths". Yikes!

I asked if she had done any scan to show or prove it was a baby in there. She said she didn't think it was necessary because it would mean doubting God. And she left it at that and I didn't even bother changing her mind set.

Please if you know you are carrying 'pregnancy' of more than 10mths, IT IS NOT PREGNANCY O! Don't be delaying your own normal God-given pregnancy. Go and find out what is occupying your womb and take it out if need be.

The longer you leave the fake pregnancy, the more precious time you will be wasting! It is most likely FIBROIDS!!...and you are probably in heart failure!

IS INFREQUENT SEX IN MARRIAGE = CHEATING HUSBAND?

Please, don't ask why I have not been blogging...Isn't it obvious that some of us are still in the festive mood! Shops and others go close to enjoy xmas and new year tinz, then it will now be only me that will not close to enjoy parry tinz!

Anyways, Happy New Year ma peeps! Today's question for my fellow colleagues according to the argument I had with a friend today is "Does infrequent sex in marriage mean that your husband may be cheating on you?". You know why I am asking? This my friend is so convinced her husband has a side-chic. I don't know what to tell her again. Meanwhile, I know the husband O! The man does not have time for woman and besides, his kind of work does not even allow him to sneak a peek at other women. More so, he comes home late at night!

I don tell am say, there are other reasons why he may not be able to perform at night which she should look into:- resentment, exhaustion, stress and other things. The irony of everything is that sex relieves stress, therefore, lack of it can become an additional source of stress, which will only compound the problem.

To break a sex slump, try eliminating all the sources of stress in your wife’s life. Do the dishes, clean the bathroom and send the kids to Grandma’s. You’ll be surprised by the effect a clean and quiet house has on your partner.

But then again, one can never tell!... Most men cannot be trusted. As much as I would hate to admit this,  infrequent sex in this part of our world could mean cheating. Really, but do you expect me to tell my friend that?!

Well, my take on this issue is that before any woman jumps into the conclusion of infidelity as the main cause of their poor sex life in marriage, they should explore other likely reasons. 

Have a blessed day!